The Psychic Stylist Podcast is now LIVE!
Hi babes! I am so excited to be writing this post because my podcast is finally LIVE!
I have been working on this podcast for a few weeks now, but I’ll admit I’ve been thinking about it for months & months. I actually purchased a microphone back in February but I let it sit on my desk for a few weeks before I had the courage to plug it into my computer & hit record.
I have always loved the world of communication & journalism. Sharing my own experiences through words, with the intention to inspire others, has always felt natural to me. I have been so deeply moved & changed by the voices of others & want to lead the ones who are walking just a few paces behind me by sharing my own experiences. I am one of those people who are incredibly comfortable speaking in front of an audience so while I was a bit nervous to hit record on the mic I was confident that it was going to be another natural extension of myself, my business, & the vision I’m constantly recreating for my future.
I won’t deny that talking to no one on the other side of the podcast mic was a little challenging at first. I must have recorded about a dozen trial episodes until I felt as if I got my rhythm fully dialled in. It was really interesting to observe myself push through the uncomfortable bits & anchor into the bigger vision.
I decided to make a little vision board for my podcast to keep me inspired when that self doubt started to creep in. If you’ve been following me for some time now than you’ll know that I love a vision board to keep myself motivated & on track with a project. Its something I can glance at anytime I need a little encouragement.
I am also lucky enough to have truly amazing women at my side who are on standby if I need a little pep talk. Ladies who see me for exactly who I am & not have to jump over any of my own subconscious hurdles. These women have been paramount in my life over & over again in helping me show up for my best self. They never ever tell me to give up, are always on point with their inspiring & uplifting advice.
If there is something you’re wanting to start, maybe a side hustle or a passion project here is what I have learned so far about the process…I hope the lessons I have learned along the way help you stick to your guns & get that thing you want to do out into the world- because there has never been a time when the world needed your magic more than now!
Take Messy Action! It’s totally ok if what you’re doing isn’t as perfect as maybe the people who have inspired you or the others who have put their work out ahead of you! Experience takes time & you’ll never gain the experience unless you start.
You see the imperfections a lot more than anyone else. I know how easy it is to be your worst critic, I used to do this SO much. I would search high & low for the smallest mistake in my work & immediately use it as a reason to pull the plug. I spent far, far too much time standing in my own way & now I have a system & the support of experts to ensure that there is nothing that wrong with my work & that really helps me simply push PUBLISH.
Let it evolve. How you start might not be how you finish, & that is ok! We are all evolutionary beings & it’s natural to adjust your sails once you’ve set out on your journey. I am always evolving, so my business is going to evolve alongside with me & that is something to celebrate! As long as you create consistently your audience will be excited to evolve alongside with you.
Life is short & you are magic so please just go for it. This is probably the most personal lesson for me. After losing my very first business at the young age of 28 I was traumatized. I didn’t have a support system to encourage me to redirect my own sails so instead I let my ship sink. It took a lot of work to resurrect my vessel out of the deeps parts of my subconscious but I did & I am never looking back again. You are not your past, or your failures, you are your future. Living right now.
Where mindset & fashion meet.
We make decisions based on the beliefs that we have. For example if you believe that reading a book on your favorite subject means you'll learn useful information that will improve the quality of your life, then you’re probably going to make some time to read the book. If you don’t believe that, would you even bother flipping through the first few pages? I know I wouldn’t.
Apply this same concept to yourself. If you believe that the skills & services you excel at will provide value to a company, or to others- would you put yourself out there? Of course you would! Still, I experience again & again women who are so full of value selling themselves short. Coming up with almost every excuse in the book as to why they don’t want to market themselves or their services. I’m able to see this so clearly because I do the same & I have been on a JOURNEY to figure out how to cure this confidence condition for good, because just like you, I want to contribute to the world around me in a way that not only provides value & experience to others but to myself as well. We all deserve to live ABUNDANTLY…& never before have we been able to connect with so much support & live in such abundance by simply sharing our true & authentic essence with the world.
So if the world is at our fingertips why do we pull our hands away? I have learned this doubt actually doesn’t have anything to do with whether or not we think our qualifications or products are enough, but more if we believe if we are actually enough. Do we just like to pretend it’s our goods or services we are worried about because it’s a lot easier to deflect our short comings onto something outside of ourselves.
I’ve been working alongside some truly incredible women recently & there a pattern amongst them, they allow for what they offer to be imperfect because they believe in themselves enough to know that they can always improve their what to serve their who…& their who are a direct reflection of themselves.
So if you could switch your doubtful mindset into one of confidence would you? There are more ways than ever to work with manifestation, but if the old new age methods just don’t speak to you don't worry, this mystical destination of abundance has more than just a few roads leading in.
Our ability to attract the situations, opportunities, & experiences that we desire is a direct reflection of our self worth, & self worth comes from self love. When you really love yourself for exactly who you are then you are more likely to put yourself in a position to receive, & that means putting yourself in a vulnerable place sometimes. When we hide, stay small, or live in alignment with our limiting believes we make decisions to match those…but if we show up, invest in ourselves, explore our potential we make decisions to meet that growth.
If you’ve been peaking around the manifestation movement for longer than a second you’ve most likely come across an assortment of practices to help shift your energy & your mindset into a more positive place. Ancient practices like yoga, mediation, & breath work will no doubly help you get out of your head & back into your body where you can experience a true sense of liberation from the rude voice in your head clouding up your days with her bullshit. For some thats enough, but what I have experienced is that if you want to take your manifestation skills to the next level it’s time for Hypnosis.
I have used Hypnosis now for over a year, not just on myself but with my clients & the results are always inspiring. I’ve experienced that when you shift your internal dialogue from one of doubt to encouragement you make better decisions that move you in the direction of your dreams. You do things like, start to put yourself out there more, & by doing so you attract more opportunities.
So what is Hypnosis? It's a little like mediation, but more direct & influential. Mediation is a practice that is meant too clam you down, center yourself, & become more present. Hypnosis is a direct conversation with your subconscious mind- the part of your brain responsible for the decisions you make…& for the breaths you take, the beating of your heart, & other bodily functions. Think about it, you don’t actively think about breathing do you? Of course not, that would be so exhausting, but something is telling your lungs to expand & contract. That is your subconscious brain. Imagine it like your internal operating system & control room.
Until you were around 8 years old your subconscious mind was wide open & programming its system based on the experiences your small self is having, learning from the people around you. Regardless of what typeof upbringing you had, it’s time for an upgrade. Now you have a more conscious approach to your life you’re going to need software to back it up. Reprogramming your subconscious mind to be more confident so that you can show up more & receive more is just one way this work can make a lasting change on your life.
When you really begin to understand how you think, you understand how you collaborate with the universe to live the way you do. In today’s world we are more influenced than ever before…with so much content telling us how to be who we are it is really easy to forget how our unique spice is truly the secret ingredient for living a life that makes us happy.
Think about the big desires you have for your life, imagine embodying them without fear. Imagine where that might lead you? Do you want to be more successful? Attract a partner? More community? Now imagine having a little angel to write you up a personalized script for your subconscious to follow in order to make those dreams a reality.
That is the power of Hypnosis & having a hypnotherapist who not only dreams of bright & brilliant futures but who knows that it’s not just vision that is needed to make things happen. Your visions are just as important as your actions & for a busy boss babe like yourself, you need actions that can be quickly & easily integrated into your day.
My hypnosis process is unique, I create custom hypnotic tracks that are a layers audio experience that efficiently infuses your subconscious with the perfect blend of relaxation & stimulation to make sure you’re supporting your subconscious to match the boss babe that you are.
I am so excited to announce that I have a new offer for you babes. An offering that utilizes my zones of genius to up level your confidence & redesign your mindset so that you believe that you can conquer anything you put your mind to, AND redesign your style to match.
I started my career in the beauty industry over 10 years ago, I moved through being a hair & make up artist, to a wardrobe stylist, to a salon owner, to eventually burning myself out. I went on a spiritual journey after that where I discovered how to really work with the best parts of myself to live an aligned & abundant life.
In this new program I am going to bring my two worlds together in a way I have never seen done before. I am going to be your personal stylist, we are going to redesign your wardrobe & set the vision you have for yourself into motion with style. We are also going to train your mindset to match your new wardrobe.
It’s going to be EPIC.
If you want to check out more information on this offerings, the link in here.
& If this program calls to you then I am so ready for you. You’ll know because you’ll feel it, & you'll be ale to see it. The benefit of doing this work, how your life will up level & change. You’ll sit with that feeling for a minute & absolutely know that is it something you need to expand into.
Love you babes so much, XX
The 1st New Moon of 2022! Intention & manifestation time bb!
Happy New Moon in Capricorn bbs!
Luna is setting up 2022 with her potent dark phase in the sign of Capricorn happening exact today, 01.02.2022 at 10:33pst.
Meeting the Sun, Venus rx, & Pluto who are all hanging out in Capricorn creating a stellium in the sky.
The vibe is quiet, determined, & calculated.
Venus rx in Capricorn has us all observing the way we relate to people, money, & beauty through the lens of Saturn 🪐, Capricorn’s ruling planet. Saturn rules the systems of our lives, encouraging us to go inward & take inventory of our personal habits & patterns under the scope of Venus rx. Saturn is known to put obstacles along our way to encourage our growth.
In what ways have you been observing the ways you relate to others? Or to how you perceive beauty? To your relationship with money & aesthetic surroundings?
Pluto is also here, helping you alchemize these observations & obstacles. Being the planet of death & rebirth he is here to guide you through the transformation.
Luna is also creating a trine to Uranus, offering support to see & embody the shift & renewal of this new moon.
All in all it’s a cute New Moon with so much potential for us to actually get to work on our manifestations.
Tarot for your New Moon Ritual…
*If you don’t have a Tarot deck of your own you can use these as journal prompts…
Close your eyes, take a few deep & centering breaths.
Pull three cards & journal around these three questions..
Venus, the planet of love, beauty, & relationships is retrograde right now, meaning that she is seemingly moving backwards in the sky. Her shadows reveal what aspects of relationships we need to re-evaluate & re-design. In order for us to bring our intentions & manifestations to life we need to relate to that version of ourselves. Who are you when you are the version of yourself that embodies these intentions & manifestations?
What energy is your biggest ally right now in bringing you in closer relationship to the version of yourself that is in alignment to receive your intentions?
Moon, the planet that rules our emotions, is the gatekeeper to our intentions & manifestations. When we completely embody that it is SAFE for us to receive what it is we are calling in is when it happens. There is often something we are unaware of that is blocking us from really feeling safe to receive. Ask your deck what type of emotional support do you need right now? Connect with your nervous system when asking this question.
Pluto, the planet of death & rebirth. When it comes to the things we are calling in, we often forget that we need to make space…which means giving something up. However, we worry that we are losing & in fear of being void we hang on. Let this card illuminate that it is safe for you to let go. There is a death that needs to happen, of the thing that you are holding onto but is keeping you from actually manifesting what you desire is the thing that needs to die. What is it?
If you’re ready for some deeper cosmic guidance to start off this New Year book in now for one of my cosmic readings. These readings are a collaborative experience, I will guide you through pragmatic shifts you can make to use the knowledge of Astrology & the guidance of Tarot to live in more alignment with your life.
Readings are via ZOOM & 1 hour long.
They are recorded for you to go back & watch or listen to at anytime, for a lifetime.
I will also send you a digital copy of your natal chart.
These readings are a collaborative experience, I will guide you through pragmatic shifts you can make to use the knowledge of Astrology to live in more alignment with your life.
Once purchased you will receive an email to set up your appointment time.
Tarot & Astrology have become the gatekeepers to seeing my divine connection to the universe time & time again.
For years I looked to others for answers, I doubted my intuition, & questioned my ability to be the creator of my life.
Our human experience is full of mystery, but these mystical tools act as a guides through the labyrinth of life, offering pragmatic solutions to some of our most complex experiences.
I want you to understand that who you are is brilliant. That every little thing about you has been consciously created to serve your greatest potential & deepest desires. I am here to illuminate the symbolism, to uncover the messages, & to teach you how to consciously interact with the world around you so that you can live exactly as you dream.
These readings are meant to move you…move you into alignment, into your purpose, into your power.
How to set intentions for 2022
Well the New Years meme’s & messages are all a buzz right now & from what I can see you are either ready to take on the new year with fierce motivation OR you’re dreading what else could possibly go wrong in 2022.
I for one am excited about the start of a new year. Not because 2021 was a dream in any sense, like so many I was tested to the max this year but that has given me all the more reason to greet this new cycle with excitement.
I love a reason to refresh & plan the upcoming months with a clean slate, but before I sit down to make plans of any kind I always do this little journal practice to help me set the most authentic intentions & plans for myself.
In your journal I want you to write down a few of your favorite memories from this last year. What experiences, big or small, brought you that type of feeling that makes your body tingle all over? When were you uncontrollably smiling? Hysterically laughing? Or, so consumed in love?
Next write down some personal accomplishments that you achieved in 2021. Did you leave a job you hated? Set better boundaries with someone? Did you move? Buy your dream car? These are things that when you did them you thought to yourself “Oh my god, I did it!! I can do anything. YES, YES, YES!”
Now just take a moment with those two lists. Relive those moments. Put on some music & dance around, ya you read that right….dance! Moving your body after reading your lists will help you integrate the feelings of worthiness & confidence deep into your nervous system.
After you’ve moved your body around a bit, it’s time to draft your intentions list for the year ahead. Intentions are like goals, but with more soul. Rather than specific things or experiences, you’ll want to focus on feelings.
In 2022 do you want to feel more abundant? More adored? Do you want to feel healthier?
Writing down how we want to feel, versus writing down what we think will get us to that feeling, allows for us to collaborate with the universe in a really exciting way.
Want to feel more abundant in the new year? Instead of writing down the way you think you’ll experience more abundance, like getting a new job or going full time in your business, focus on what abundance means to you. Embody that feeling, before you have it, & watch the universe deliver abundance to you.
*Personal example here, I was hell bent on reaching a certain number in my business last year. I was SO focused on this number & month after month when I would fall short I would become consumed with doubt & a lack mentality. It didn’t matter what was happening around me, I was too focused on what wasn’t happening to receive anything that was. After doing this little exercise I re-focused my attention on abundance & what happened in the following weeks still makes me swell with pride.
I started to experience all of the abundance I had been chasing.
Think of yourself as an antenna, you have to tune your frequency to the channel that you want to receive. A new job might not actually be the thing that will bring you the type of abundance that you’re calling in.
Having trust & faith in the universe means holding your self worth high. That’s why we danced at the beginning of this ritual…to plant that self worth deep into your nervous system.
I know that might sound a little on the woo woo side, but embodiment practices are backed by science. They initiate the pragmatic shifts that really bring about change into our lives.
Ok, so, enjoy this process of getting clear on your intentions! I love keeping my list somewhere I see it everyday. It’s like a gentle reminder to make aligned decisions based on my desired intentions.
Manifesting the life of your dreams takes work, courage, & commitment…I know this! If you are looking for support & mentorship in the new year check out my offerings. I am limiting the amount of 1:1 clients I take on in this new year so be sure to book in of you’ve been hearing the call.
All my love, Nina
Venus Retrograde
Venus retrograde baby, maybe you’ve heard of it? This cosmic event happens every 18 months & this time the planet of love & beauty bounces backwards has a lot of Astrologers buzzing.
Beware! It’s the return of the ex! Venus retrograde gets a bad rep & yes, the drama of how this event could affect you is fierce, but let me assure you the planet of love beauty moving backwards isn’t a one way ticket to the lonely hearts club, unless you want it to be.
Let’s start off with the basics, Astrology isn’t fortune telling. It is a way to focus your attention on certain areas of your life at specific times to make sure everything is operating effectively & efficiently. For example, if there’s a relationship in your life that is out of balance you’re going to feel it now as the planet that rules love, relationships, beauty, & aesthetics seemingly moves backwards in our sky.
While Venus dances backwards she meets Pluto, the planet of death & rebirth, so everything that ends during this time is for the greater good. REMEMBER THAT! Everything that happens to you is in service to your growth.
Sure, not always a walk in the park, especially now when the mad dash of the Holidays are in full swing.
Cute timing right? As a lot of us will be visiting with family over the holidays don’t think this relationship drama is only focused at your boo. Nope relationships of ALL kinds will be under the microscope, but consider looking at these energies as an opportunity to rewrite your story.
How can you show up better for yourself & for those around you?
There are other ways this retrograde might affect your life over the next 40 days.
Maybe it’s your beauty routine that needs revamped? Or you closet cleaned out. Remember Venus rules more than just relationships, she rules what we perceive to be beautiful.
How do we benefit from investing in what makes us feel beautiful?
I really believe that when we feel beautiful, we feel our best. When we surround ourselves with objects & treasures that we love & see as beautiful the vibration of our spaces change.
So if you want to use this energy to break up with your deadbeat boyfriend, fire away sis…but if you want to use this energy to take inventory of how love & beauty influence your life for the better keep on reading.
Venus retrograde is a chance for you to look at the ways you nurture yourself, the ways you love yourself, & the ways in which you invite beauty into your life.
So for the next 40 days that Venus is retrograde how can you bring more beauty into your life?
Daily affirmations for self love like,
I am wrapped in divine love.
Or affirmations for self worth like,
I am the most important relationship I have.
Maybe for the next 40 days you commit to daily mirror work. Every morning & every evening take a few minutes to talk to yourself while looking at your reflection in the mirror. Tell yourself how beautiful you look, how magical you are. Tell yourself what you’re grateful for & what you’re excited to accomplish in the future.
Or maybe you commit to my self guided body love hypnosis!
Whatever you decide to do, give yourself new ideas that shape a new reality.
If you want to go even deeper into the quantum field of self love or self evolution, great! I have just the tool for you.
HYPNOTHERAPY. My favorite. IYKYK.
I don’t preach about this tool for no reason though, it has truly transformed my life & the life of so many of my clients. Hypnosis allows us easy access to the subconscious mind where we write your most abundant code to set the framework for your conscious mind to operate from.
The present & the future require new ways & new habits of looking at old problems.
May that be upgrading your self love software, or your abundance program, Hypnosis is the pragmatic tool to bring new balance into your life.
When you book in for Hypnosis with me you have two options, theres the Mini Mentorship & the Queen program.
MM are weekly session with me. We spend the first half of the session exploring the subject you want to use Hypnosis on, or simply whatever you want to heal or expand on in your life. MM is a month long at minimum but honestly most of my clients book in consecutively because of the shifts they experience.
Hypnotherapy is like a workout & a massage for your brain at the same time.
If you’re ready to use Hypnosis on a very specific area of your life, the Queen Mentorship is where you want to go. This is for the lady who knows she is right at the edge of a big shift. This is where I offer you a custom Hypnotic track that you listen to everyday for at least 21 days, We will have weekly check ins, tarot readings, & astrology forecasts to infuse your pragmatic shift with mystical tools.
What some of my previous clients are saying about this offering,
So If you’ve been thinking of stepping into a deeper, more loving, abundant relationship with yourself I am here to guide you.
New Moon Solar Eclipse
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Happy New Moon Solar Eclipse BBs
Today is a new moon solar eclipse happening at 11:43pm in Sagittarius & depending on where this cosmic event hits your natal chart you’re either cruising or colliding with some parts of yourself that you thought were sorted out.
This is the last eclipse of the Sagittarius/Gemini eclipse cycle that started in June 2020. What was going on for you then? Consider what habits or behaviors you thought you had outgrown since then, or what lessons are coming back to remind you…there’s still a little bit of work to finish up!
Don’t take it as a set back, take it as an opportunity to take another look around before you leave. Are you leaving anything behind? Any work left undone?
For me this eclipse is sitting on my midheaven, which is the point in our natal chart that illuminates our cosmic job description. As this eclipse increases my awareness on how much work I have done around my professional life since June 2020, it also doesn’t hide how much work I still want to accomplish.
Wherever this eclipse event happens in your chart will be emphasized with the influence of Sag style. A fire sign, Sagittarius is confident & hell bent on living life on their terms. A little dangerous when provoked, but loyal till the end.
A ritual for this New Moon..
Collect your journal, favorite magical amulets, treasures, or simply adorn yourself in your favorite outfit. The one that makes you feel really sexy & empowered. Make some tea & grab your beloved mug. Throw all your goodies in a basket or backpack &…
Go outside! To honor the adventurous spirit of Sagittarius, adventure out into the world. Find a place that you feel inspired by. It could be your local park, somewhere a little off the beaten path, or you can create your own scene at home with some exotic music or incense. Anything that takes you out of your everyday & into dream world.
Set up a little alter. Lay down a tapestry & display your favorite treasures. Pour your tea or whatever libation you choose into your favorite vessel. Smudge your space with whatever calls to you (my favorite is Frankincense & Myrrh incenses).
Now, find a comfortable seat & close your eyes.Begin to slow down your breath & relax your body. Start with the crown of your head & breath all the way down to your toes, allowing the body simply relax. Drop the shoulders, relax the belly, & feel the earth support your body. Allow this to be exactly how it is, you’re not looking for perfection here, just be as present as possible.
*a trick for the monkey mind, imagine your thoughts as clouds. Let them float across your mind eye…
When you feel your body relax ask yourself to reveal what habit or behavior you’re ready to let go of. What is no longer is serving you & your evolution.
Don’t overthink it & write down the very first thing that comes to mind. If nothing comes to mind, just start writing. Get it out onto paper.
When you feel complete you can (safely) burn this paper, allowing for the element of Sagittarius to take whatever you're ready to let go of & recycle it into the atmosphere.
Now that you have let go of the thing that’s been holding you back, imagine what you would like to replace this internal space with.
Feel GOOD about this thing, as if you already have it. Explore how it feels in your body. When it comes to manifesting, gratitude is one of the most important ingredients. Grab your journal again & write out how this thing manifests in your life. How it improves your life. Dream up the thing your manifesting & give it life!
Take this piece of paper & fold it up. Carry it in your wallet, or leave it on your alter so that you see it daily to remind yourself of the work you have done. Of what you have released & what you are calling in.
Until the new full moon, which happens December 18th in the sign of Cancer, reference this ritual & the work you have done to step into your most authentic & aligned experience.
YOU are so capable of living exactly how you dream!
P.S. I love Astrology because it’s like a cue from the universe where to direct your energy & attention for your evolution. If you want to know more about your birth chart & what the planets have to tell you about your unique magic then a cosmic reading is perfect for you! I am now booking readings for the end of the year…space is limited so if you’ve been hearing the call then click below.
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